Okay
long one — moved to
Amsterdam three months ago and still trying to read the room in
coffeeshops. I get the basics (ID, age limit) but small stuff trips me up: do people tip, is it rude to ask about strengths, how loud is too loud, smoking outside vs inside etiquette, and when is it okay to ask for a recommendation? Been to a couple near Centraal and one in De Pijp (not naming, but you know the vibe). Also curious how cities like
Leiden or
Rotterdam differ. Any local perspectives or weird unwritten rules I should know? Thanks, still learning the lingo and don't want to look clueless.